I am enough.
In January 2002, I was diagnosed with a Serious Mental Illness (SMI).
My mother says that I have been my own biggest critic for most of my life. Even before my mental health diagnosis, I was suffering from a case of idealistic perfectionism.
These two things compounded into self-criticism and diminished self-confidence.
While researching Self-Confidence in regards too Leadership, I found that the first step in conquering a lack of Self-Confidence is to "Address your self-doubt". Then one can move on to "Recognizing One's Accomplishments".
Thinking about this, I have identified the biggest accomplishment in my life so far...
Getting married to my wife, Kayo.
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The decade before meeting Kayo were some of the most challenging years in my life. Learning to overcome a diagnosis with SMI by learning to manage, monitor, and accept my condition was no easy or quick journey. I truly believed that I was broken and no one would ever want to partner with me.
Currently, I am blessed and grateful to be "highly functional" in both my personal and professional life.
Thank you, Universe. For giving me this challenge to learn the importance of self-care, self-love, and self-confidence.
Whenever I am feeling self-doubt, I will think of my wedding day, the journey it took to get there, and every person that supported me along the way.
Inhale confidence. Exhale Doubt.
I am enough.